I know it’s hard. I know the days can drag on. I know about all those lonely nights.
I’ve been there.
And I wish it wouldn’t be this hard. But there are days when your heart literally hurts, especially after meeting a promising young man, only for it to turn sour and find out he’s not the one for you.
And I know you’re tired of people telling you,
“It’s going to happen soon.”
“He’s coming for you.”
“Just be patient and wait.”
So I’m not going to tell you those. Because honestly, I don’t know.
I don’t know if it is going to happen soon.
I don’t know where he is.
And I don’t know how long you’ll have to wait.
So maybe you pray even harder. Read even more. And they tell you,
“Wait on God.”
“Jesus is your Husband.”
“Prepare for your marriage.”
All good advice. But it’s been a year. Or two. Or five. And hope is not what it used to be. It’s dwindling a little.
But I will tell you this:
This season too shall pass.
That I know.
I have been where you are. I read. I prayed. I met new friends. Potentials even. I was expectant. I had high hopes.
I guarded my heart. Took captive of my thoughts. Tried to think only of what was pure, noble and right. But I couldn’t. I thought of marriage. A lot. I thought of potential husbands. A lot.
And then it hurt. And hurt some more.
But you wake up one day, and you’re ok. Literally, ok.
No longer panicky, no longer anxious. I had peace.
I trusted Jesus. I trusted God. If it is His will, it will happen. He wants this to happen more than I do.
So yes, it will pass. And you will enjoy your singleness like never before. You will see with new eyes, feel with a new heart. You will crave for God just as when you met Him as your First Love. You will want to know Him more, serve Him as He has called you to.
This season is a gift from God. No husband to care for. No kids to run after. Your time is your own. You can focus on your passion for singing. Take up painting. Watch your favorite episode of Friends. Go on road trips.
This is your life. It doesn’t start after marriage. Marriage does not define you. THIS IS YOUR LIFE.
And it’s great to be alive.
So it’s ok. Just hang on to God. With every bit of your might.
Because, my dear Sister-in-Waiting, this too shall pass. And what’s around the corner is worth waiting for.